Friends and clients often ask me about various tricks,
supplements, and weight-loss systems to help kickstart their weight loss or to
break through plateaus. My answer is always the same: eat clean and exercise
regularly. But what I often leave out (mostly because it’s a difficult, delicate
pill to swallow), is that you have to be honest with yourself about your own
habits: The truth shall set your goals free.
Social media is a great way to keep in touch, but it’s also
an excellent catalog of your own habits. Scroll through your Facebook or
Instagram account. How often are you posting pics of you and your friends
having drinks? How many awesome desserts and fabulous meals have you concocted?
How often are you checking in at restaurants and eateries?
Your efforts don’t begin in the gym. They don’t begin in
your kitchen. They begin in your heart and mind, at the point where you are
ready to admit that your habits are not the best, forgive yourself for it, and
resolve to make the change. If you are not willing to do those three things, no
smoothie maker, pill, powder, exercise DVD, or app is going to work. Especially
not long-term.
We love to throw around phrases such as “lifestyle change”
and “healthy living.” But we rarely talk or think about the volume of effort
that goes into truly making those changes. It can be overwhelming, especially
when we are struggling with want vs. need. You have to truly want to make
changes—of any kind. “I need to stop
eating poorly.” “I need to go to the gym more.” Until need becomes want this
will not work. But when you do make the decision, it’ll feel better
than any sundae or appletini you’ve ever had.
Use your social media outlets to support your efforts. Post
healthy meal photos. Share fitness milestones, even if you think it’s small or
lame. If you walked a mile for the first time today, share it! New sneakers?
Post them! Working out with friends? Instagram and tag it. Be proud of
yourself. You’ll be amazed at the volume of feedback. The people who love you
want you to succeed and be healthy. Share it.
I think I'm having an issue with posting comments lately and I have no idea why :( Anyway, it's so very good to read your words again. I've missed them--and you!
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right and I love the idea of using social media to tag friends you're working out with or new fitness clothes or healthy meals, whatever. Putting it out there makes a commitment to take on a new, healthier lifestyle, and sometimes just the smallest changes can have the biggest impact.
XOXO